The past twelve months have not been a great year for my family, when it comes to our pet population. We have been blessed with cats and dogs who have been a part of our lives for the past 10-18 years. My children grew up along side their pets and never imagined their lives with out their faithful friend. I complained about the chaos, pet hair, who was going to feed them, and loved them with all of my heart.
The back window of my car is decorated with Disney window stickers to represent our family. There is a happy Disney Mom, Dad, Girl, Boy, as well as three Disney Cats, and two Disney Dogs. All have smiling faces, to represent the happiest place on earth, and our family.
To represent our family accurately today, I would need to get myself out to the back of my car and scrape off two cats, and a dog. I haven't been able to bring myself to do that. I also probably should remove the happy young Disney boy and girl, and replace them with "hopefully" happy Disney young adults and move them to the other side of the window to represent that our fabulous kids are now making their own lives and planning their own futures. As is should be.....
This has been a time of adjustment, a time of change, which has not always been easy but with practice my new life has brought me much happiness, love, and joy. I once again wake up and find myself happy to see what the day will bring, and content finding a different way to spend my time. I have been learning to cook and bake. I go to library again, I read. I have begun an exercise plan to help me feel better on a daily basis. I watch really bad reality TV, as well as Anderson Cooper.
Still there was a lack of joy in the house. The early spring, the warm weather, a trip with my husband to California, all were joyful, but frankly the nest is still empty, and emptying out more each day. We currently still have Wrigley our 7 year old Bagel, which is a Beagle Basset Hound, and Lily the last of our cats, who just celebrated her 14th birthday!
So, it became apparent to me that to jump start the joy in our house, it was time to add new life, and that new life is the little guy above in the picture with my husband. It is my "Stunning Mystery Companion", Warren (Zevon) the Puggle.
Warren is still with his mother, and will join us in about two weeks. His mother will probably be overjoyed to have her nest emptied of her eight canine children. Just meeting Warren brought excited, joyful conversation between our family members. Waiting for the day he can join us at home is also exciting. I bought him a cute little bed, and I know he will spend his first few days at his new home chewing his new bed to shreds, climbing on Wrigley, biting his tail, eating our shoes, etc., but looking at his cute little puggle face, who could stay mad?
What with all my expectations long abandoned
My solitary nature notwithstanding
You're the one who pulled me
Out of that crash landing
My stunning mystery companion
My solitary nature notwithstanding
You're the one who pulled me
Out of that crash landing
My stunning mystery companion
Right now I can't quite remember
The cause of all my tears
I hear you laughing and somehow
The past just disappears
Maybe you were joking when you said
You'd take me for ten years and no more
Maybe you've had the best of me
But you could take another ten years and be sure
The cause of all my tears
I hear you laughing and somehow
The past just disappears
Maybe you were joking when you said
You'd take me for ten years and no more
Maybe you've had the best of me
But you could take another ten years and be sure
Now, it doesn't take a rocket scientist to realize that this song was written for a human, specifically Jackson's longtime girlfriend. I however, read the words and thought of Warren the Puggle who is joining my family. He is my stunning mystery companion!
Goodbye Nala
Goodbye Jack
Goodbye Chloe
You can never be replaced, and your love and loyalty will always be in our hearts! I know you understand my need to open my heart to "My Stunning Mystery Companion"!